How to Never Be Duped Again with Your Psychic Reading

Remember that just as there are good and honest online psychics in this world, inevitably there will be some who will pretend they are, concerned only with your pocketbook. It can be hard to know whom to turn to. Often, just one failed online psychic reading is enough to keep us on our guard and distrust psychics forever. But, this doesn't mean you should stop in your search for answers.

The really good and trustworthy psychics are concerned with your well-being. But you must do your part as well. This is because psychic readings work best when there is a connection, a remarkable bond between you and the psychic reader. A psychic reading is not a one-way event whose spiritual energy and potentialities rest solely on the reader. You, as the subject, also bring crucial vibrations and energy that can make or break a psychic reading.

Perhaps, some of the fault lies with people who expect too much from a psychic reading, demanding the exact answers to every trivial concern. This is not the way of the psychic nature of life. We all have “free will”. We must not expect psychics to provide irrevocable and god-like answers to everything, for that will cancel out our exercise of free will. In our heart of hearts lay all the answers.

Here are some tips you may want to follow for a successful and most enlightening online psychic session.

1. Choose a time when there is peace and quiet in your place. It may be in the early morning when there is no traffic or when the kids are asleep.

2. Turn off the TV, your mobile phone, or any other devices which might intrude in the psychic session.

3. Prior to the psychic reading, write down your questions on a piece of paper. Remember to make them specific, not general. General topics can apply to almost anyone, so make your questions your own.

4. Also try to relax and meditate. Clear out your mind and feelings so as to give way to a smoother reading. You can light a candle and some incense or listen to some calming music or even the birds outside. Anything that can help you make a transition from your routine life to the psychic realm.

5. Do not test the psychic reader by asking, perhaps, what you are wearing or the color of your eyes. If you want credentials or testimonials, kindly ask the reader, and he or she will gladly provide them to you, including their skills and techniques. This is more helpful on both your part than bluntly playing games with the reader, which can only hinder the positive flow of energy between you.

6. A most important aspect in a psychic reading is your ease and comfort with each other. If you don't feel comfortable with your online psychic, you can let them know (in a nice way, of course). You can either get your refund or be referred to another online psychic who can connect with you on a more effective and intimate level.

7. Online readings, like any other psychic readings, are interactive. Involve yourself deeply with the session and make an effort to really reach out to your psychic reader. Let them know if you understand what is being said, and don't hesitate to ask for clarifications.

8. Take down notes as the session unfolds, so that you have something to look back on afterwards.

9. Lastly, be open and willing while you converse with your reader. This alone is the best piece of advice you can have.

After all, the truth only becomes manifest to an open mind and willing heart. Instead of regarding online psychics as enemies to be suspicious of, it's about time we thought of them as well-meaning guides, agents of healing, and, most of all, potential friends.

What a Good Online Psychic Will and Will Not Do For You

Online psychic reading is a booming business nowadays, with hundreds of established psychics claiming to hold all the answers to your life's concerns, and hundreds more just sprouting out. While money is inevitably a prerequisite to getting services in our world today, there still are some online psychics who are not just after their clients' pocketbook but are truly concerned with their well-being. This is what differentiates a really good psychic from a pseudo one.

If you are new to online psychics and psychic reading, below are just some of the things you might expect from your very first enlightening session with one of them.

Psychic readers do not hold all the answers. Most people mistakenly base a psychic reader's worth on their capacity to know everything, down to the last inconsequential details. Psychic readers are not all-knowing gods who can influence the outcome of events much less predict them with pinpoint accuracy. Online psychics who claim such things are just wasting their energy instead of focusing them on more worthwhile pursuits.

At best, you hold the answers yourself. When you come into a psychic reading, you do not surrender your free will to the online psychic reader. A good psychic reader will even encourage you to use that free will, one of the greatest gift humanity has been given, to change things in your life.

Psychic readers will not instruct you on how to run your life. Good psychic readers will not prescribe a course of action for your life, and neither should you blindly follow them. Psychic readings are not meant to be taken as orders, but as guides in your life. At the end of the day, it is up to you how you will use the information you have acquired during the psychic session.

Good psychic readers are honest. After all, it is only within the realm of sincerity that successful psychic readings can be made. Honest psychic readers will provide you their client testimonials, skills, techniques, and other details, sincerely and with no embellishments.

Not all online psychic readers can connect with their clients. This doesn't mean they are ineffectual, or that you the client is hard to penetrate. Timing and vibrations may have something to do with it. Again, psychic readers of good integrity will openly admit when they cannot properly connect with you, Rather than struggle and give you a bad psychic reading that is not worth your money, they will go as far as to refer you to one of their colleagues who may be able to connect with you more effectively.

Lastly, good psychic readers will tell you answers that you need in life, not the ones you want to hear. You may feel that you are not getting your money's worth just because you are hearing things which contradict your expectations. Only a mediocre online psychic reader will dispense you “nice” readings in an effort to please you. But the really good reader will provide answers you really need, no matter how unpleasant sounding they may be.